Today the first of two males charged in Rehtaeh’s case will be sentenced. I’m not expecting much – parole for a couple months or a suspended sentence. He’ll be sentenced as a young offender so there isn’t a lot of options.

I have no idea what to expect this morning. We have a lot of support and for that we are grateful.

This is my victim impact statement. I’m still not sure if I’ll read it out loud or just enter it into the court record.

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Glen Canning

September 22, 2014
Victim Impact Statement
Case File: 130794
Relationship to Victim Rehtaeh Parsons: Father

It would be impossible for me to sum up the impact this crime has had on my life and the life of my daughter, Rehtaeh. My life has been forever changed, and her life ended.

Every morning I wake up with the realization she is gone. I will never hear her voice again. She will never call me, spend the day with me, or watch a movie we both looked forward to seeing together.

I won’t see her graduate from university and enter a career she dreamed of since she was a child. Rae was my only child. I will never walk my daughter down the aisle at her wedding. I will never be a grandfather and enjoy the laughter of a grandchild.

The hole you left in my life is as big as the hole you left in hers. You took away her friends, her innocence, her dreams, her youth, and with the click of a camera you took away her will to live.

I had to watch my promising, intelligent, and full of life child turn into an empty ghost. Her dreams turned to ashes, her laughter turned to anger and cries. This is not the way this had to end.

It’s hard knowing that Rehtaeh, being the kind of person she was, would have forgiven you if you had only said you were sorry. When she was alive to hear it – you could have made a difference, yet you remained silent even when you knew her life had turned into a nightmare by your actions. You did nothing when it would have mattered.

I fight everyday not to turn into a dark empty shell. I’m not able to work. Hobbies I had that were important to me are all long forgotten and sit on shelves in the basement. I suffer from depression and anxiety. I often fear being alone.

My sense of justice has been shattered and replaced with doubt, cynicism, and a lack of faith. Rehtaeh is not here today to tell you what your actions did to her, but based on what I saw, you damaged her beyond repair.

Every time I think of my daughter Rehtaeh, I think of you and how what you did contributed to the end of her. I will live like this for the rest of my life.

Glen Canning